Ideas Against Divorces: Summary
Divorces Plague: IntroductionSome Evil Consequences of DivorcesWhat Heaven Recommends Against DivorcesThe Juridical Contract of Divorce Prevention-
Juridical Contract Not 100% Reliable
Against Divorces: Conclusion
Divorces Plague: Introduction
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Because divorces are connected to immoralities and they play a crucial role to the procedure which leads to apocalypse, I propose some strategies to protect catholic marriages, for those who will protect their marriage.
The number of divorces is increasing and now the rate is already of 70% in countries like Belgium and Spain.
Because in many cases the husband and wife refuse to live together, although they may remain together with their children during 30 years,
I believe that's it's possible to live together the whole life, but because of several circumstances, it is the refuse of the other that triumphs.
Some Evil Consequences of Divorces
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Divorces are a consequence of the modern style of life, where the women no longer submit to their husbands;
instead they compete with them (the so called "equality of genders" in the couple and the feminisms),
being thus more easily to appear disputes, and thus, divorces. A frequent mistake also is to find the "reason" (to divorce).
There's no "reason" to divorce, the christian/catholic marriage shall be everlasting... but we can always find pretexts, if we want...
please see also to the topic Arguments Against Feminism
Some of the evil consequences of the divorce for the ex-partners:
- Divorces are a cause of immorality and adultery for the ex-partners, because frequently they finish to find another lover,
falling thus in mortal sin, sometimes big sin (homosexualities), being thus no longer anymore in the path to holiness...
- Divorces are often cause of (big) suffering for one of the ex-partners (at least)
Concerning the children of the divorced couples, they're also big victims and they are condemned to have extra difficulties,
during their childhood but also when they're adults. Just to give an idea of some of these evil sufferings
(you may also refer also to this article's newspaper, in Dutch:
Children of broken families make quicker use of violence):
- they take more frequently calming, sleep and antidepressant tablets
- they have more frequently behavior and violence problems
- they are more naive
- they can have more easily sexual perverse tendencies in adult age
- they have more frequently worse results at school
- they have more food and fear problems
- they are more sensitive to stress
- they have more emotional problems
- they have two times more chances to divorce again in adult age
- they have more chances to fall in alcohol and drugs problems
- they have more chances not to live the Oedipus complex, required for a healthy heterosexuality at adult age
- ...
Thus, a divorce is in practice the liberty of one (or both) parents against the rights of the rest of the family.
Human rights, here? Where? Rights of one (or two) against the rights of the others and the unity of the holy family…
What Heaven Recommends Against Divorces
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Our Lady (and also Jesus), in New York (link:
http://www.tldm.org/directives/d305.htm), said that the best is that the couple pray, everyday, the rosary together.
In this way, the family remain united. Of course, some other protections, such as, praying the St. Michael's exorcism, doing fast,
putting in the neck the brown scapular, a rosary, the St. Benedict's medal and a crucifix, may help also.
Please remember that doing regularly fast/diet also improves the personal appearance and it is thus good to keep the marriage...
It also helps if the woman submits to her husband, as asked by the bible, Col 3:18...
please don't forget also that the husband shall love and correct her wife, as told in Col 3:19
(and thus, also not giving her orders that are a cause of sin, like forcing sodomy, abortion...),
and both should remember that marriage should last for the whole life, even in the difficult situations...
The Juridical Contract of Divorce Prevention
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I propose also, that, for those who will, before the signature of the catholic marriage,
that the future husband and wife engage themselves through a juridical document, the contract of responsibility within the marriage, the original to be stored by a notary...
the idea is to force that the divorce doesn't compensate as now. The amounts of money to pay may be adapted, but should be kept high enough to be dissuasive. Anyhow, in case of divorce, the couple cannot escape the court…
A sketch of this document follows:
- The 2 spouses, a man and a woman, engage themselves to marry through a catholic marriage
and remain married for the whole life, even in the difficult periods,
according to the point 17 of the present contract. In case that one spouse forces the
divorce, behalf in the case of prostitution of the woman,
he or she shall pay an indemnification of 100% of all his/her revenues in money,
estate and capitals, with a minimum 100.000.000.000 € to the other spouse.
For rich people, the amounts must be adapted: they must increase a lot:
divorces shall not compensate neither be payable. In case of reconciliation and reestablishment of the marriage, the spouse that received the money shall return back the half of the original amount (without interests) that was previously kept in a saving bank account.
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- In case that one spouse forces the separation, he or she shall pay an indemnification of 50% of all his/her revenues in money, estate and capitals, with a minimum 50.000.000.000 € to the other spouse. In case of reconciliation and reestablishment of the marriage, the spouse that received the money shall return back the half of the amount (without interests) that was previously kept in a saving bank account.
- In case of bad intentioned proven bad behaviours like adultery, physical agression or alcoholism the spouse in fault shall pay each day a 1/30 of its monthly revenue, with a minimum of 50 € per day. Note: if this evil behaviour is consequence of disease/health problems and dependencies/vices, e.g. hard drugs dependency/alcoholism/strong pedophile tendencies, the agressor shall accept medical treatment or otherwise pay the amount due to the victim spouse.
- In all points in fault where no price is mentioned, the spouse in fault shall pay per day a 1/50 of its monthly revenue, with a minimum of 25 € per day. All the prices are indexed with the inflation rate. If the agressor suffers from a disease which is the cause of the disorders, he/she shall be submitted to therapeutic traitment, otherwise he/she shall pay the corresponding amounts to the other spouse.
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- The future husband engage himself to love his wife as stated in Col 3:19 and Eph 5:21-33.
The husband shall also correct his wife, according to the law of God, not forcing her to sin, like forcing her to abort, to accept sodomy, to steal, to prostitute herself, etc.
He shall not force her to a slavery situation (see also following point).
- The wife shall be subordinated to his husband, as stated in Col 3:18 and Eph 5:21-33,
and interpreted according to the catholic doctrine of 1950. This means, in principle, that she shall submit to him,
behalf in situations which are a cause of sin (e.g. being forced to prostitution or to abort) or are a cause of slavery,
in normal circumstances. In very difficult situations, e.g., she works, but she receives a low salary, they must educate a lot of children and he doesn't/can't work...
the best is to do fast frequently and pray daily the rosary in family, while the problem remains. A possible solution is also ask God help through the novena, 9 days, to Mary that undo the knots... in practice, the basic rules should remain: she shall submit to him, be corrected by him, but he must love her as his own body...and not treat her with bitterness... thus, they shall do their best, respecting these rules... to be studied case by case... if he works and she takes care of house tasks, it is better...
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- The wife agree to cover her hair/head in church and when praying, as stated in I Cor 11:1-16 and interpreted according to the catholic doctrine of 1950.
- The couple agree to pray daily and together the rosary, with attention to what is said, and preferrably kneeling.
- The couple agree to do fast twice per week: fast and prayer diminishes/avoids evil, improves the future, improves also the physical appearance, diminishing thus the risks of adultery related with of lack of "beauty".
- The spouses engage themselves to remain or to become (as soon as possible) Catholics.
- The spouses engage themselves to go to the Sunday's catholic mass every week.
- The couple agree when taking communion, to do it with the mouth and knee curbing.
- In case of divorce or separation, the boys shall be educated by the father (to receive male education) and the girls by the mother (to receive female education), in 80% of the time.
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- This contract takes effect from the date and moment of the signature of the catholic marriage
and lasts the whole life, except in case of prostitution of the woman,
the only case of divorce allowed, and only if the man that wishes.
- The parents engage themselves to give a catholic education to their children.
- The spouses engage themselves to honor Jesus with full trust, through the icon of the Divine Mercy (visible from www.christianstrategies.eu, home page).
- The separation of estate, money and capitals shall be complete. However, if the wife works, at least 70% of her neto wage must go to a bank account of the husband, where she has no control: he must be the master of money at home, in order to avoid abuses or inversions. The superior wife must also cover ~95 % of her hair (with for instance a nice, but not luxuous hat), and use a crucifix over her chest.
- The only case of divorce/marriage anullment allowed is the case where the man asks the divorce because of the prostitution of his wife (refer to the gospels for the subject).
- This contract is established between a man and a woman (no transexualities accepted). Otherwise this contract is not valid and the spouse in fault shall pay to the other spouse an amount equal to the one due for a forced separation.
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- After a well succeeded divorce (or separation) under this contract, none of the ex-spouses shall find another partner(lover).
If the spouse who forces the divorce, finds another lover, he/she shall pay 10.000.000.000 € to the other spouse for each year of proven cohabitation in couple with other partner(s). In case of separation, the spouse who forces the separation and lives in couple with another partner, shall pay 5.000.000.000 € per year while this situation persists.
This clause is null for the husband, if the cause of the divorce is the prostitution of the woman, asked by the husband,
the only case allowed of divorce.
(Date and signature of the future couple)
This sketch can be improved according to specific situations, and the future couple should be asked to read carefully the contract.
It would be the time to take (or not) their responsibilities. They shall decide if they want an everlasting marriage or a less serious marriage.
Nobody is forced to sign this contract. But once done, they should take their responsibilities. This is not the best solution, but may be a dissuasive,
and as 50 years ago, the children could benefit of having the parents together with a minimum of love (or respect for the contract).
In case of ambiguities or special situations, e.g. adultery, alcoholism, drugs, or other situation caused by nervous disease/tendencies,
ideally a special (catholic) mediation service should be created in order to try to promote the marriage and study these cases.
The Juridical Contract is Not 100% Reliable
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Please note that his formula is not 100% reliable: it suffices that a spouse, that wishes the divorce, to run away from the country:
he/she would then escape the law from the country of marriage... but in that case, the victime spouse could always claim in court the money and estate of the guilty spouse...
Please note also that unforeseen situations can appear, not covered by the juridical contract, and the law of the country may reduce this type of contract to void...
it is always better to ask the advice of a lawyer before signing this contract...
Against Divorces: Conclusion
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It is always better to combine the juridical contract of prevention of divorce with the commandments of the Bible
and the recommandations of the Virgin Mary and Jesus, to try to get better results...
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