Arguments Against Feminisms: Summary
No Equality of Genders Inside the MarriageConsequences of Feminisms-
Also a Cause of Homosexualities
What to Do?-
Women, Work and CoupleConcerning Women and Money
But: Women are IndispensableCase Study: the Veil-
The Veil: Conclusion
No Equality of Genders Inside the Marriage
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In our time, the Occident is trying to achieve the equality of opportunities, equality of genders, etc.
Although the equality of the genders at work is not evil itself, the statistics in the high developed countries, like the Scandinavian ones, show that, when the women earn good, or as much as men, the rate of divorces increase.
The bible says nothing about the equality of genders at work. However, concerning the equality of genders inside the marriage, the Bible says (Col 3:18-19):
"Wives, be subordinate to your husbands, as is proper in the Lord.
Husbands, love your wives, and avoid any bitterness toward them."
So: the Christian woman shall subordinate to her husband, and the husband shall love her. In no case, the couple shall find reasons, valid or not, to divorce.
Up to the 1960s, the situation was hypocrite inside the marriage because the woman had no financial independency and she was forced to subordinate to her husband. The husbands frequently also didn't love her wives.
After the 1960s the women become financially independent and earn some dignity. The society promotes the equality of the genders.
The marriages become less hypocrite and the dependencies diminished. But: the number of divorces increase dramatically.
Consequences of Feminisms
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- With the explosive number of divorces, the families are destroyed. The divorce opens the doors to the immoralities:
of the couple: the ex-spouses find normally other partners (ex. remarriages) of their children: their children don't receive the required education and they may not live the complex of Oedipus, required for a healthy heterosexuality. They may be educated without living with the father or the mother etc. Consequence: they are easily exposed to all sort of immoralities and parallel sexualities.
So, as a consequence of the explosive number of divorces, the number of immoralities also explode: remarriages, homosexualities, marital cohabitations, etc.
To see some of the evil consequences of divorces in the abandoned ex-partner and specially in the children,
please see also the topic Against Divorces
- It may open the doors to the process of the End of the World.
The Bible says that the End Times are as the times of Sodom: the immoralities shall spread everywhere.
The book of Revelation also speaks of great sin. Please see also the topic Apocalypse decrypted
Feminism: Also a Cause of Homosexualities
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Because of secret witchcraft and/or dominant women and/or conflictual parent's couple, with possible separation of the parents, mainly. Our Lady in New York confirms the fact that dominant women in the couple are in the origin of homo/lesbian tendencies in the concerned families.
What to Do?
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I take as example the first among the women, the Virgin Mary. She subordinated to the nature and to her husband. She uses always a veil to show his submission to the nature.
However, that does not mean that she can not occupy high positions in the divine and diplomatic/work hierarchy. She has been very active appearing in Fatima, New York, Medjugorje, etc.
So the dignity, independency and the capacities of the women can be ok, only they shall be used according the divine purposes.
Please note also that single women and holy women (once ressurected) are free from submission to the husbands...
The great danger is thus to extend the equality of opportunities at work to the marriage (note: for married women,
priority shall be given first to family and only after to career...). This mistake of communism/competition of genders can lead easily to divorces:
she finds valid reasons, pretexts, defaults in her man. Because she has 'reason' and because there's 'equality of genders' inside the marriage, she divorces.
And 'she is right'… No! We destroy the families and put the children in danger, because of this mistake.
Women may deserve their financial independency, but they shall return to the order of the nature!!! Like the blessed Virgin Mary.
No confusion between equality at work and inequality in the marriage!!!
The societies must be aware of the danger they are putting themselves…or: the immoralities explodes up to a point that God allows the Apocalypse…
Now we have already 7 divorces over 10 marriages in countries like Belgium and Spain. Is this normal? And it happens in name of the equality of genders…
Note: the husband shall also not divorce and shall support his wife. He shall also love her as his own body and correct her when necessary; he shall not force her to commit sins
(e.g. not force her to prostitute herself, practice sodomy or abortion etc.) and he shall not reduce her to slavery, in normal circumstances;
Eph 5:21-33 tells us that she shall respect him and he shall love her as his own body... Please note that in some dramatic cases,
separation could be temporarily allowed: other solutions are preferred and mentioned in the topic
Idea Against Divorces
Making Compatible Women, Work and Couple
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According to the Bible and Our Lady, when she appeared in New York (please see the www.tldm.org directives from heaven:
Woman and Mothers), God created the woman to be a support to his husband, a good wife, submitted to her husband,
a good mother and to perform the housewife tasks: so not to compete with man, at work or in the couple...
She can work, but a good christian wife shall first take care of these priority tasks first,
and only after consecrate herself to work...
In order to make compatible life in couple and work for married women, while preserving catholic tradition and holiness, I suggest these possibilities:
The couple pays a housewife: if they have financial means, this is the best solution to take care of the family and house affairs... She can even work full time... if she doesn't impose herself in the couple... She works half time, in order to make compatible work and home affairs, with less stress... She doesn't work, becoming a good spouse, mother and housewife... She works full time, but remembering that the home affairs and the children are also her responsibility and
that she shall not bother her husband with home affairs, neither claiming equality of genders/feminisms in the couple...
it is a possible, but stressing solution... and it may lead to a dangerous situation of slavery for her, in some difficult cases...
in that case, I suggest the couple to do prayer and fast while the difficult situation persists:
those are situations to be studied case by case, but the general rule shall remain:
she shall submit to him and he must love her as his own body and without forcing her to sin; thus, they shall do their best respecting these rules...
Concerning Women and Money
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Women may work, but if they become too powerful at work, they can use money as blackmail to impose their power in the couple... specially if the husband earns a lot less... So, to avoid perverse situations, I suggest that worker wives give (at least) 70% of their neto wage to their husbands, and after he decides what to do with the money. In order to avoid abuses, a Juridical Contract of Divorce Prevention would be desirable... a sketch of such contract can be found at Ideas Against Divorces.
In order to give a holy example at work, women in higher positions should also be machists and cover their hair, as our Queens, the Virgin Mary and the other holy women do...
But: Women are Indispensable
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Indeed, genders are not equal, but complementary; a normal sexual intercourse shows it clearly... And to proof that God wants to show us how women are important, even if they shall not be greater than men in some domains, we have again the example of the Queen of Heaven, the Virgin Mary: God wants that all our requests to Him shall pass through her intercession. There's nothing that Mary can not get from God, through her requests and humbleness. In this way, we request something well intentioned to Mary and she gets it for us: even impossible missions/ miracles, through the Unfailing Novena undoer of the Knots, for instance... but, pay attention: God doesn't refuse anything to Mary, but He takes His time: it is not instantaneous...
Case Study: the Veil
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One important case study here is the Muslim veil:
It may symbolizes submission of women to men It is a Muslim religious symbol, so the Muslim women that wear it, may be proud of showing their religious identity Every woman shall be free to wear what she wants to, even if this freedom means submission (contradiction?) In some cases it causes the repulse of the non-Muslims, because it may be considered as not esthetic at all For Muslims, the same veils may be considered as esthetic, that means, this problem makes no sense for them
Because it may be non esthetic and in some cases it does an aggressive publicity for Islam, it is causing some troubles to the Europeans. Some try to forbid it in public places. These situations finish sometimes in Court. The confusion and contradictions are generalized: freedom, rivalry of cultures, racism, what to do? The results of the judges reveal this. Sometimes Muslim women win, others not.
In the Bible, the Letter to the Corinthians I, 11,1:16, we can find a text that speaks over the veil.
Surprisingly and against everything and everybody, St. Paul not only is not against the veil but he even recommends it to the Christian women, at least at the church!
THIS MEANS THAT IN SOME SENSE THE MUSLIM WOMEN ARE RIGHT AND THEY ARE TRYING TO GIVE US A LESSON THAT WE REFUSE TO UNDERSTAND.
That is: the veil shall be a religious symbol, not only for the Muslim women, but also for the Christian ones.
The only point is: we have to do it more esthetic. Is there a solution for this? Yes, there is. The solution comes from the Virgin Mary.
You may ask me "How?". Very simple: simple look for a photo of the blessed Virgin Mary:
she always looks charming, she has a very good appearance, and she appears always with her head/hair covered.
That means: she always uses a veil, but a charming veil. Take as example this picture (Virgin of Medjugorje):
Very well cared, isn't it?
Please note that St. Paul mentions that the women should wear the veil, as demanded by the angels (I Cor 11:10):
"for this reason a woman should have a sign of authority on her head, because of the angels."
Please note Our Lady words in N. York, (http://www.tldm.org/directives/d46.htm):
"My child, tell all to act as good example in My Son's House.
Women must wear a head covering in the holy places and in prayer.
It is not because of custom;
it is because the angels demand proper deportment during the Holy Sacrifice."
- Our Lady, May 29, 1976
The Veil: Conclusion
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In order to keep consistent to our democratic values, we, Europeans and Christians, shall respect the culture of the others and the freedom of choice. That means: we shall accept that Muslim women wear veils Not only Muslim women should wear the veils, the Christian women also. If we really clearly read what the Bible says, then we conclude, that the veil is also recommended to Christian women (!) Only the veil shall change. Religious women are invited to imitate the Virgin Mary in the question of the veil when they pray.
That is, they should use esthetic veils. But pay attention: don't exaggerate, because Our Lady in New York asked christian women to become modest
(please refer to the tldm link Mothers).
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